When I signed up for an online dating profile, I had absolutely no idea what I was doing. I had just gotten out of a two year relationship about three months prior, and felt it was time to at least start meeting people. But before that, I did try meeting them the normal way. I swear!
The first guy I dated after my breakup, and I hate to say it, was definently a total rebound. We'll name him Z. Z wasn't just good-looking, he was HOT! We did have quite a bit of fun, and frankly maybe that's I needed to get over my ex. It was mainly no-strings-attached hangout and sex. We did go out and drink quite a bit (Didn't expect that did ya?) Yes...SEX.
*Author's Note: I do plan on saying the word SEX. SEX SEX SEX SEX. Sex, is a normal part of the dating cycle. I will say, and be very firm about this...I don't sleep with anyone right away. I'm not easy. Okay, at least we have that clear...continue!
ANYWHO, the sex was fantastic and the fact that we were both on the same page even better...:)
Eventually about a month later, our little arrangement had run it's course and frankly I was getting kind of tired of it anyways. I'm built to be in a relationship where there's REAL feelings and REAL emotion. I really don't like feeling like a booty call.
I did go on a few more dates and whatnot (no sex involved in these ones ladies) and eventually came to the conclusion three months after my breakup that I was ready and willing to meet someone. I wanted something real and concrete that I could count on. So...almost three months to the day that my ex and I broke up...I signed up for a profile on one of the biggest online dating sites: Match.com.
Hence, the beginning of my journey.
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